Is It Wrong For Parent To Interfere In Children's Affair?

Is it wrong for parents to interfere with their children's relationship affair?

One cool evening i was sitting in my room, actually doing some mind-job; Like Henry Ford said "Thinking is the hardest work there's, which is  probably the reason why so few engage in it", so I was doing the hardest work. LOL, hope you're same?

I was thinking about Random issues related to life and relationship, I suddenly remembered a Movie I watched; it was a nice film! it was focus on forbidden relationship and how parent stopped their children from marrying their own choice of a spouse but instead try to coerce them to marry who they want them to.

It inspired me to write this article, because I recently discovered some parents detect whom and whom not to be in a relationship with but that was as of then because most children don't care if their parent is in support or not.

Everyone will agree that it's wrong to disobey one's parent but does it applies to relationship affair?

The matter has taken the worst heights as children who tend to experience this forbidden relationship is usually madly in love, that they can hardly sacrifice their love just to keep their parents wish, let me ask; will you obey your parent if they forbid your relationship? comment!

Most times our parents may be right and some other times wrong, it depends!

I have met people who share their experience on forbidden relationship whereby disobeying their parent, it went well for some while others faced the hard part of their decision.

Whichever way, before deciding, try to know the reasons why your parent seems to disapprove your relationship because you'll surely need your parent. Sooner or Later!

I'll advise you to follow your choice but also listen to other people opinion, they maybe right too!

Furthermore, don't disobey your parent because everyone else is doing so, you might not be lucky like them!

Reasons like "Don't marry her because she is slim, fat, short, tall and other appearance flaws" are extraneous. Even if its coming from your parent, because looks play little or no role when it comes to the success of a relationship.

So learn to know your parent reason and also be able to differentiate between Infatuations and love, because infatuation will always urge you to disobey your parent but true love enables you make true decision.

Below is the story of john who was stuck by infatuation that lead him to disobeying his mom.

"I fell in love with a girl when I travel to my village, the relationship was forbidden because according to my mom she doesn't have a good reputation but the love I had for this girl was super strong that I had to disobey my mom after intense argument and controversies with my mom but when I left the village; probably after a week. All the feeling for this girl was good as gone, then I realized I was stroked with infatuation, I apologized to my mom and also learnt from my mistake."

Infatuation made him  disobey his mom and later he discovered it wasn't a real good love; yeah, that's what infatuation can do!

The main reason why people are infatuated is because they don't really know what they want and what love really means, that's why you need to take painstaking measure when making such decision...

Mind you, learn to make personal decision because its a key to succeed but still listen to their people's opinion and learn from them...

"At first, my parents were against our relationship, so we ran away together and got married, truth to be told, our marriage is so blissful. our parent later apologized for being against us, we are living happily" From a successful couple.

Seeing this, you'll agree it pays to be disobey at times and also to make personal decision.

if you feel your relationship is right, try convincing your parent or look for any other option!

However, some people still think it isn't right for parents to interfere with their affair. Below is some things they're saying:

"Its wrong, my parents lived their own life, so they shouldn't be involved in mine, I don't really buy the idea" Comment from a street interview!

"I won't want my parent to detect for me because I am the one getting married not them, so they should stay off" Comment from a Facebook user!

"Disobeying our parent isn't right but not in such issues, my parent shouldn't interfere because I know the good virtue I saw in whoever I decide to marry which they probably won't see or isn't seeing. So its wrong!" Reply From a Call Interview.

So what do you think? is it wrong or right? comment with good reasons!

In conclusion, parents might be judging based on past flaws which your spouse have probably improved, that's why you need to know their reasons and make personal decision.
Anyway, I leave you with this quote to ponder on.

"If you want to go quick, Go Alone.If you want to go far, Go Together!"

Note: Your personal decision should be the last bus-stop.

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