The 4 Absolute Ways To Make Your Girlfriend Want Sex.

Sometimes girls tend to be strict when it comes to sex, most often girls deny their boyfriend sex due to the anxiety of being used and dumped which they probably don't want to happen.

They fear they won't be loved after sex or given much attention, care and communication after sex, they often think that all a guy want is SEX and when they finally get what they want, they will dumped them for another girl.

It is very insidious for a girl to think all her boyfriend wants is to get in between her legs. As a guy; if your attitude portrays such then you're likely not to ever have sex with her.

Having said all this, I have compiled a good list of etiquette that will make your girlfriend want SEX from you, which I titled The 4 Absolute Ways To Make Your Girlfriend Want SEX.

In addition, you should know sex involves consent and it's unlawful to coerce a lady to have sex either by pressurizing, threat or rape. So you'll definitely be needing this article to get her approval for sex or rather consent.

Most guys are just impatient, they ask for sex at the infant stage. Sex shouldn't be your foremost relationship goal and if it is then you're in lust not a relationship...

You shouldn't rush into SEX, its not a competition, don't pressurize your girlfriend for sex because a friend told you how splendorous his sex with his girlfriend was, let it be based on mutual agreement.

In addition before unleashing the topic at stake, learn to respect her wish, don't try to play smart with her feelings.

Fast forwarding to the the topic, I know you're growing impatient..

The 4 Absolute Ways To Make Your Girlfriend Want Sex

1. Gain Her Trust - If you really want your girlfriend to have sex with you then you need to make her trust you.

You need to change her mindset of being dumped after SEX, or not being cared for and loved. By proving to her you're genuine and have no mischievous plans.

To build her trust you need to be dependable, let her see you as someone she can confide in, someone that's reliable, someone that's matured and responsible.

Don't make sex special or crucial, don't let sex be your topic or motive always, care less about sex so as to win her trust and also prove that you're not just after sex.

You should be loyal to her, in order to gain required trust, you need to be faithful to her and the relationship, you can't expect sex from her when she's doubting your love or probably think you might be unfaithful or rather promiscuous.

Don't let her see you with an opposite sex especially alone, not for any reason should you.

In addition, you also need to be faithful to your promises, don't make promise you won't be able to fulfill.

When you promise to call or text her, make sure you do that which you've said.

When you promise to visit her, don't disappoint her!

When you're faithful to your promises, she will develop trust in you.
lastly, you should give sex time and it also take time to gain her trust, don't try to persuade or pressurize her, when you stay for a long time without doing or saying anything about sex, she will feel you're trust worthy, she will be knowledgeable to know that you're not after sex and will start feeling comfortable around you...

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2. Cleanliness they say; is next to Godliness, no sensitive or well brought up girl would want to have sex in a dirty and unfriendly environment or rather with someone that isn't clean except she's a gold digger (of course even gold diggers now have good taste) that don't care where she has sex and with who isn't CLEAN. They only care about the cash or bounty they'll receive at the end.

If you really want to have sex or make your girlfriend want sex then you'd consider embracing cleanliness.

You need to be clean in your appearance, you need to look magnificent.

Also, you need to keep your environment and apartment clean, you'll agree with me that no sensitive girl will like to have sex in an unfriendly atmosphere; A house that's unkept, scattered with wrappers, clothes and under wears. So keep your apartment and environment clean.

Also if you have a car and often drive your girlfriend with it, you should learn or consider keeping the car clean.

Ensure the car is clean and has a friendly atmosphere, you should consider playing cool music when driving her around and also use aromatic air freshener to keep the atmosphere of your car nice, pleasant and sparking.

Note - Not excluding body maintenance.

Ensure everything about you is just Superb clean; internal and external.

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3. Care - Every Girl needs care and its best to show her that care, if you intend having sex with her then you should care for her, show her affection, don't care less about her.

You should also try to maintain eye contact when in discussion with her, this shows you're attentive and more often than not, it's regarded as CARE.

In addition, you need to treat her like a princess and a goddess, make her feel special, make feel like she's the only one on planet earth, make her feel lucky to have you.

You should go on a date together and visit romantic/fun places to spend time.
Going to parties, galleries or shopping mall is good but sometime isn't enough, you need to go to places meant for only two or rather place two of you will spend time without distraction.

Also, care for by giving her gifts, listen to her problem and showing her great affection but don't do anything unnatural; be yourself, don't fake to care and do only things that not beyond your capability.

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4. Activating Sex Mood - There are certain ways to activate sex mood, these LoveNancials No_4 has to do with action and intension of having sex with her at a particular time or day.

You might have win her trust and every necessary things but you can't fold your hands and hope sex come, you need to work towards achieving it.

You might be scared to try anything but this point Is here to help you.

She might even want sex but you probably don't know how to start, so read this point keenly..

Important Message
Make sure she trust you and is willing to have sex but there is no problem if you want to try.

Make sure she's in good mood too.

∆ Be prepared - You need to be prepared for sex, make sure everything you'll be needing is ready.

Buy the Condoms, it will be awkward to rush out to buy condom when the scene is about starting, or remembering when you're already about to start, so get it ready else it might make your sexual desire fall flat or even limit your chances of having sex (who knows if she might change her mind when you're rushing for condom?).

If you will be needing some drugs, go and buy them before the scene starts. I am not advising you to use drugs and probably won't recommend any. If you know the drug you want to use or already using then go and buy them.

Arrange your house, the bedsheets and make the atmosphere conducive for two.
Play cool or rather sweet or romantic songs (low tone, not loud. Just a background play). Turn on your light, it should be a light that isn't too bright maybe colored, though you know what is nice, so use the light you think is the best.

Also get everything you think will be necessary and relevant ready.

∆ Make A Move - This is the aspect that requires action, you can start by calling or texting her, telling her to visit you at home.

You can also go and pick her by yourself, but while doing this make sure everything is set.

When she arrives, entertain her with soft drinks and also do or discuss some fun stuff with her.

•Go Romantic - The main aim of this aspect is to turn her on, there's no specific thing that guarantees she would be turned on as it differs by people's nature, decision & personality. But the basic rules never change and if well applied, she'll be asking for more!

Some of the basic ways is to maintain close distance with her (If she's sitting, go and seat close to her and vice versa.),  then you can go further to kissing and touching her romantically, telling her dirty words that's related to how you tend to explore her.

Kiss her slowly and romantically, don't overwhelm her.  Take a break from kissing and do some other sexual things. You can penetrate further by caressing her laps, breast and other body parts.

In addition, you can ask her if she will be willing to have sex with you, there's nothing awkward about it.

If she is responding to your romantic touches or acts by moaning or gasping in pleasure then you can have your way by ripping off panties, bra, etc

During sex, try different sex position and also try oral sex it could be great.

Warning: if she show any feeling or sign of not wanting to have sex with you or not comfortable with your initial move, don't try to coerce her or even pressure her. She might not be in the mood or not wanting to have sex for some reasons, so let her be and always remember you can always try again.

Final thoughts, make sure she's comfortable with your act and avoid looking at her sensual parts when you're still building trust.

Discard every negative thoughts if she didn't comply, this may be rape, using sleeping pills and more.

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