How Will You React If Your Spouse Is Cheating?

Cheating is common in most relationship, and its the main reason why so many relationship crashed or is crashing.

When can you say someone has cheated? is it until sex?

"Cheating starts when your spouse start hiding things from you, WhatsApp, Facebook and Text messages"

The above quoted might be incredible but there's an atom of truth in it, but you can't judge a book by its cover, so you'll need solid evidence like sex or finding out he or she is having a secret affair.

Before moving on; let me ask, Is Cheating Justifiable?  How will you react if your spouse is cheating?, those are some questions I'll be looking at.

Infidelity is common among married persons or those dating, but I still don't understand why a married couple will cheat, after making marital vow? Unbelievable!

That's why you should be fully prepared before engaging in marriage because its a long term vow..

Whichever way, is there any relevant excuse for cheating?
"I cheated because ..." is it justifiable?

I Listen keenly to women who say their husband wasn't good at bed or isn't caring so they had to cheat on him, but is that a good reason to cheat?

Its so painful to find out that your spouse is cheating, instead of cheating why not settle whatever issues or misunderstanding you have?

Advise, If you're planning to get married, make sure you're well prepared and ain't infatuated thinking its love.

If find you out you're not compatible, its better you quit.
"Broken Engagement is better than Broken Marriage" Rev OJEMBE Emmanuel Uche.

I'll leave you to answer if cheating is justifiable.

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How will you react if your spouse is cheating?

I did some interviews and got response from respective individuals; some of this interview was done on social networking sites while others was done via phone calling and street talk, whichever ways, below are some responses I got and they're quite amazing.

"If I ever find out my wife is cheating, I will beat hell out of her and then send her on an exile of no return; her parent house. Because traditionally cheating is an abomination and could lead to my death as the husband..." Mr Success Akindele.

Seriously, is divorce acceptable in marriage?  keep the reading I'll take about it!

"in my village, when your wife cheat and you ate the food she cooked; knowingly or unknowingly, you will become sick and die, this alone has killed many men in my village" Mr Success Akindele said further.

What? are you kidding me? Gosh, that tradition is too harsh or rather cruel, that's why women should remain faithful and I believe women will be using it when they plan to kill their husband whenever the feel he deserve death. SMH

"If my boyfriend is cheating, I will just let him go because he doesn't worth me and it has also proved he won't be a Loyal husband if we eventually marry" Joy Ani.

I fancy her response then I inquired, "Does it mean you don't love him at first?"

She replied "It will hurt me I admit but I am not ready to make marital mistakes, so I rather quit and do something with my life to achieve big and meet someone better".
Smiles, anyway let me list three more!

" If my husband is cheating then its complicated because I am a woman and can't take any hard action.
I'll just pray to God to change and also endurance will do." Mrs Gloria Sunday.

"If my girlfriend is cheating I'll breakup ASAP, she definitely isn't a wife material." Excellent Job

"If my boyfriend is cheating, I won't be bothered,  as we ain't married yet, so he is free to live life as it pleases him, likewise do I and would cheat on him if I wish." Mhiz Cynthia

Incredible response indeed, I'll advise you not to take laws into your hands by harming him or her, so if you're planning to, please don't!

Also, before taking actions or reacting, ask yourself what kind of relationship you're having, if you're engaged or planning to marry her then I think you should give this quote a second thought:

"Broken engagement is better than broken marriage" Rev OJEMBE Emmanuel uche.

if you're not yet engaged then you shouldn't react much , if your not comfortable then quit the relationship and look for a comfortable one. don't take unnecessary actions!

There are some people you love but just have to let go for your own good. 

Furthermore, if you don't want to be in a relationship any longer, peacefully end it instead of cheating.

READ: How to know he's cheating

Is Divorce Acceptable In Marriage?

This question is best answered by religion, so according to your believe share it in comment box.

My own view, I will say its not advisable but its not wrong. Especially if my spouse continue cheating and don't even see it as anything; in this case, I will be forced to divorce her. But some people can tolerate it; so it's up to you!

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