The Painful Breakup After 3 Years Of Dating, Advice Needed!



Hello, I have been a very huge fan of this blog tho am not too active..
I will like to hide my identity for some security reasons,

I have a relationship problem and I think it would be best if I share it  with you, that's why I decided to use your guest post page, I just wish you would respond fast because its a matter of urgency..

This happened one faithful morning when I was driving to work, After some hours of driving, I saw my mum and my girlfriend on the same bus stop because they stay in the same community.

I stopped and we chatted for like 3 minutes, so I told them I had to go since I have some people in my car  and I can only pick one of them along since the vehicle is almost filled and it won't be fair to ask anyone to drop.

So i told my girlfriend that I will be driving my mum since she's going a long way but I will come see her at home when I'm coming back from work, she smiled and told me to take care but I never new she was having something in mind.

I was damn tired after work but I already promised my girlfriend I will be dropping by, so I had no option than to go..

When I reached her place she wasn't happy to see me (you can tell just from the look at her face).

I was so surprised, I was even thinking something might have gone wrong, then I asked her what was wrong but she kept quiet and i waited for so long but she still didn't say a word, I thought it would be best if I leave her to calm down, so I told to take that I would call her when I get home, so I left.

When I got home I brought my phone out and I discovered she has already sent me a text message but I was shocked with what I saw, She told me never to call her line and it's over between us and she have discovered I don't truly love and care for her.

I called her and asked her what she meant by the message she sent then openly told me that she wasn't happy since I decided to drive my mom and abandon her and the relationship is over..

I thought she was joking but she wasn't and I have tried my best but she doesn't want to listen to me..

I have dated her for 3yrs now and we have always been happy until this incidence happened. Please I really love her and I will not want to quit our healthy relationship this way!!


I would be glad to  get response from you and also wish this post will be made public so that other people can contribute.
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" No relationship is perfect and every relationship has a little misunderstanding and I think that's why you're experiencing this heart break, first thing you should do is apologizing to her without justifying your dids".

I really don't see any reason she should be angry with you because you drive your mom, because in relationships love leads. She can only be sad because of your actions and the way you acted..

In order to win her back you should admit you're wrong and apologize to her sincerely and as I said earlier don't justify your wrong did, don't try to make yourself look innocent .

You might think you're right about your actions but that doesn't matter here and no problem has ever been solved by laying blames instead apologies will do, even if you're right or wrong just sincerely apologize and save your relationship..

Relationship only works with love and sacrifice, so forget about you being right and apologize to her because she can't forgive you if you're still claiming the right guy, it might take you time but don't give up.

If you do this I bet your relationship will become strong again. And I will also want you to read my toolkit for a successful relationship.
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Thanks once again...

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